MADDIE DAY here, delighted to host another discussion around the kitchen table with my fabulous foodie blogmates.
My younger son and his wife moved to Massachusetts from Puerto Rico last week (hallelujah!) and I snagged them here for their first two days. I was with my family of Wicked Authors blogmates all weekend. My younger (and only) brother, whom I rarely see, drives in today from California for a few days of visiting. And tomorrow we'll all be together - both sons, their wives, my grandgirl, and her great-uncle David.
All that got me thinking about meals I love to make for family. Both of my sons and their wives are now vegetarians, so that mostly rules out meals I grew up eating with my siblings and parents. Neither couple lives close enough for a regular Sunday family dinner, but being their mom, I do love to cook for the "kids" when they visit. And I'm not talking holiday meals, but ones that might hold memories or be favorites of the visitors.
So today, my fellow foodie-authors, let's share with our readers non-holiday meals you prepare for family or special friends, who often are family-by-choice. Any meal in the day counts, including dessert!
I'll start with an easy one, my famous whole wheat blueberry pancakes. My sons grew up eating them, and I love making them on a Sunday morning when I have the kids here. In our house we top the flapjacks with options of butter, plain yogurt, and New England maple syrup, and some like to add a smear of peanut butter.
You can vary the recipe by using sliced bananas and chopped walnuts instead of berries, a recipe Robbie Jordan features in Pans 'N Pancakes, her country store restaurant in South Lick, Indiana.
Blogmates, what about you?
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LESLIE KARST: I grew up in Southern California, the daughter of two Angelinos, so my family ate a lot of Mexican food as I was growing up. Which I still adore--partly because it's delicious, but also because it always reminds me of my mom.
So one of my go-to family meals these days is calabacitas ("little squash" in Spanish), a hearty stew of zucchini, pork, corn, and aromatic spices. It's simple to make, and served with some hot tortillas, as well as a garnish of grated cheese and chopped cilantro, makes for a full meal.
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KORINA MOSS: I have to be honest, living away from family and having one son who's in college means I never serve big family meals at my house. I grew up in a big family in New York, however, and three of my siblings still live there. So when a group of us (with or without our children and their families) get together, my sister Kelly makes pasta and meatballs. Our Uncle Pete was Italian and we have very fond memories of our cousins' house on Sundays smelling like homemade spaghetti sauce, cooked with sausage and simmering on the stove all day. Luckily, my sister Kelly continued that tradition when she got married. Add plenty of parmesan cheese and a side of garlic bread, and it's comfort food and comfort memories in one big bowl.
Mangia!
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LESLIE BUDEWITZ: As for Korina, geography and other practicalities mean I rarely get a chance to cook for family. A few years ago, when my late mother sold the house I grew up in and moved to an independent living community near my brother, cutting our distance from her in less than half, Mr. Right and I hosted her often. She was pleased by how well we cooked, readily admitting we were far better cooks than she ever was, and enjoyed everything we made. We, in turn, loved making her anything she asked. "Shrimp scampi," she requested one night, then pronounced it "the best ever." (There may have been some wine involved, and not just in the sauce.)
In my childhood, she made banana bread regularly -- I swear, I was an adult before I discovered that you didn't have to wait until bananas were overripe and marked down to 10 cents a pound to buy them, and that they were good. I made her recipe for years, but whenever I make these Date Banana Bread Scones, I can almost picture her sitting at our kitchen counter nibbling one with a perfect latte made with our home espresso machine. Makes me a little weepy. I hope you enjoy them as much as I'm sure she would have.
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VICKI DELANY: What a great topic! These
days my house is the centre of our family gatherings, and I usually host Christmas, Thanksgiving,
etc. As I live in the country in a popular tourist area, and I have a swimming
pool, I get family visiting over the summer too. The big event in my family this year is my
mother’s 100th birthday party in August. I’m not hosting the party
at my house; we’re holding it at a lake-side resort nearby. But plenty of people
will be dropping in Chez Vicki, and I’m looking forward to that.
As for meals we love, in the summer, it’s
mostly outdoors on the deck. A quick and
easy barbeque, with fresh corn and plenty of salads. In the cooler weather, we
love pasta.
One thing I always like to serve is a good dessert. I love to bake, but I live alone so I rarely get the chance. When I have family visiting, I go all out. Here’s a link to a family favourite: blueberry pie. MysteryLovers' Kitchen: Blueberry Pie Part Two: The Filling by Vicki Delany(mysteryloverskitchen.com)
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LIBBY KLEIN: I host a ton of family meals. My home is the hub for my found family and we celebrate a lot of events together. That usually involves me making the meat like a huge turkey or ham, and always a dessert. But when my children come home to visit, I go for casseroles. Mostly because they are easy to to feed a large group, and I have four children with spouses and eleven grandchildren! My dinner go-to is lasagna. My kids grew up on my lasagna so they request it. And what's not to love about 40 pounds of cheese! My brunch go to - always brunch because none of us are early risers - is going to be an overnight baked french toast like this blueberry delight. I'm all about feeding a crowd with as little effort as possible.
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MOLLY MACRAE: I
come from a big family, married into a big family, and I like to feed
people! I also like trying new recipes and using a captive audience of
relatives as guinea pigs. Luckily most recipes turn out well enough. One of
those, which I’m looking forward to making when one of the brothers comes for a
visit this summer, is the fun to make Mediterranean Pressed Cob Sandwich. As befits a big family, this is a big sandwich that
feeds six to eight. Depending on how many other brothers, sisters, in-laws, nieces,
nephews, and grandchildren, etc. also come, we might make many
sandwiches with a variety of ingredients. And I’ll ask my sister who lives
nearest to bring her fabulous Deviled Eggs.
MAYA: When I was growing up, family dinners featured meat (or fish once a week), a vegetable, a salad, and a starch, usually mashed potatoes, sometimes rice or spaghetti. Pasta wasn’t a word we knew. There isn’t much difference between those dinners and ones I make today except that my husband and I are happy eating fish two or three times a week, and we eat pasta as a main dish.
But dinners look different when the whole family gets together. Like us, my daughter is an omnivore, but my brother-in-law doesn’t eat fish. And my son, his wife, and their two kids are vegetarians. A stir fry accommodates both meat eaters and vegetarians well. We stir fry the vegetables first and set them aside. We then use two pans, frying meat in one and tofu in the other. The final step is adding veggies and sauce to each pan, stirring, and simmering until hot. When I shared a recipe for a beef, mushroom, and asparagus stir fry, I included a photo of a variation on that recipe using different vegetables.
LUCY BURDETTE: Maya, your solution for your big family meals is so clever! I don't remake dishes that often and I blame this on Mystery Lovers Kitchen! So many new things to try and to post for readers. However, if a family gathering is on the horizon, I'm likely to cook up a big pot of spaghetti Bolognese, which feeds a horde.
Or I might make a chicken pot pie with a biscuit crust. Even the fussiest eater would be happy with that!
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CLEO COYLE: Marc and I have wonderful memories of big family meals, but these days we mostly live a quiet life with our rescue NYC stray cats. One of our favorite everyday family meals (including nibbles for the cats :)) is this simple Roasted Chicken with Rosemary and Lime. We roast two whole birds at a time, eat one warm with rice, and turn the second one into chicken salad for snacking, wraps, and sandwiches. (We chop up the white meat, add diced celery, chopped red onion, and dress it with mayo mixed with a little yellow mustard, salt & pepper to taste.) Although we make this roasted chicken dinner for two, this main dish is the kind that can be doubled or tripled easily if you have family or friends dropping in. Bon appétit! May your meals be joyful, every day of the week. ~ Cleo
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My grandparents lived with us, so almost all family gatherings were at our house. Summer get togethers included the usual barbecue fare: hamburgers, hot dogs, potato salad (homemade), cole slaw (homemade), and dessert (cookies, pie, or cake and, always ice cream). In cooler weather it was either a roast or turkey with all the trimmings, even when it wasn’t a holiday.
ReplyDeleteNow, the menu for family gatherings is more complicated. We have vegetarians (who at least eat fish), one fish allergy, one who won’t eat chicken, one who “lost his taste for beef”, and one gluten free with an almond allergy. No one dish will satisfy everyone so we make several. It is a fun challenge and my husband and I make it work so no one leaves hungry. My husband makes homemade pasta to which we add a variety of sauces: one with meat or fish and one that is a vegetarian option (sans fish). We also include (for the gluten free) a meat dish (ribs or a roast) and a fish dish (usually grilled salmon). No matter what we serve for dessert, ice cream is always included.
Yay, ice cream!
DeleteThere's not many of us left so it has always been pretty much just the immediate family. When my sister and her soon to be husband visit, the request is usually holubchi or lasagna.
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Ooh, Alicia, what is holubchi?
DeleteA dish from the Ukrainian ancestors of my dad's, kind of a cabbage roll. The traditional way apparently includes tomatoes, but our family does onions. My grandpa believed onions would have been more easily obtained and cheaper in the area they came from.
DeleteSince hubby and I aren't big breakfast people, it's always great to pull out all the stops when loved one come to visit. That usually means blueberry pancakes or pecan waffles or both if they are staying more than one day.
ReplyDeleteAs an old Army brat, I was fortunate enough to live around many nationalities and Mom was taught how to make their dishes from someone that knew how to make them authentic. One of my favorites to fix, that also brings back such sweet memories of both the woman that the recipe came from, but also of my Mom fixing this dish for years before turning over the kitchen to me.
Often times though hubby will say to stay out of the kitchen and let him smoke or grill up some supper. Racks of ribs, smoked pork shoulder turned into pulled pork or a wood fired steak often come inside for loved ones to feast upon.
Since hubby and I both love to bake and this time of year there's starting to be an abundance of fresh fruits, there might be Fresh Peach Delight or Blueberry Pie for dessert. And of course homemake Ozark Honey Oatmeal Cookies or a batch of peanut brittle readily available for munching during the day or late in the evenings.
Really as long as you have loved ones around, time to visit and catch up, anything served is often not the center point of a fun time, but good food is often what brings everyone together in one place around the dinner table making both food and people special.
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Now I want some of that grilled and smoked meat, Kay!
DeleteI really enjoyed reading the post today! It doesn't matter what we eat as long as there is enough for everyone! lindaherold999(at)gmail(dot)com
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DeleteI usually make Chocolate Crinkle cookies and haystacks for visitors, family, etc. aprilbluetx at yahoo dot com
ReplyDeleteTwo of my favorites, April!
DeleteFamily dinners are a pot luck. Everybody takes turns hosting and making the main dish and the others bring a side or dessert. ckmbeg (at) gmail (dot) com
ReplyDeleteA great way to deal with an inundation of relatives!
Deleteoh what a wonderful post. thank you ladies for sharing your recipes. yummy. it really all depends on who is coming for dinner. my sister and her husband love mexican, so I pull out all the stops. :) my neice and her boyfriend prefer hamburgers, hot dogs, etc. so I stay simple. I may throw together a fun salad. my brother would prefer just dessert. LOL so I will make multiple desserts and we have a dessert night. it all depends on who is coming. quilting dash lady at comcast dot net
ReplyDeleteIt really does depend on who's coming, Lori, and it sounds like you know your family (and treat them) well.
DeleteI often made a ham and have various side dished when I host a family gathering.
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Ham with sides is a great choice!
DeleteHaving family over is meaningful and special. I always have a mixed green salad with chopped cucumbers and tomatoes, red roasted baby tomatoes, and a roasted chicken and turkey breast. Dessert is cut up fruit and a marble cake. saubleb(at)gmail(dot)com
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DeleteMy family has a variety of food preferences. My husband, granddaughter, and daughter in law love lamb, but my son and daughter don't. (Where did I go wrong?) So I might serve lamb for some and beef for others.
ReplyDeleteFor holidays I often get a beef tenderloin when they are are on sale and that takes care of everyone.
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It's almost impossible to please everyone. So nice that you make the effort!
DeleteKitchen is the size of a shoebox. We go out to eat. cheetahthecat1982ATgmailDOTcom
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DeleteWhat a great post today! For family dinners we usually smoke some sort of meat and everyone will bring a side dish and a dessert. Yummy! Thanks for the chance!
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Pull out the smoker! My family down in Texas does that!
DeleteMy family, my mom, sister and sometimes my brother will get together and grill out. We usually do pork chops, corn-on-the cob. baked potatoes, grilled squash. If we do burgers and hotdogs, I will make mustard potato salad, Cole slaw, and corn-on-the-cob. My sister will make her pasta salad. I love when we all get together and cook and eat. It is just me and my little Chihuahua Bella so I don't cook as much as I used to.
ReplyDeleteMustard potato salad sounds fabulous.
DeleteWhen my boys come I like to make my homemade salsa and breakfast tacos
ReplyDeleteOoh, I made a breakfast tortilla bake on Friday - recipe next Friday here!
DeleteParents are gone and we are all too scattered now for family get togethers. I would make a King Ranch Casserole for a crowd. All the yummy parts of Tex-Mex cooking in one: corn tortillas, chicken, cheese, tomatoes, green chilis, and added things to make a sauce.
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Yummy!
DeleteWe have a lot of company in the summer here in Montana so we do a lot of BBQing. I also do a large baked penne pasta that feels a lot of people. One of my go to meals is marinated pork tenderloin. They are fast, easy to cook and always come out delicious! My new favorite casserole dish is an enchilada casserole that quick and easy to put together and really good. Artnkel@aol.com
ReplyDeleteMmm, pork tenderloin!
DeleteYou can't go wrong with chili!
ReplyDeleteOh my! What a wonderful mouthful of deliciousness y’all cook and bake. I will start with visiting Edith’s home, and visit each of you, eating my way and admiring your cooking/baking masterpieces. As for at my home, when our grandkids come visit, there is plenty of homemade pizza, but also homemade Chilean empanadas, which are time consuming, but everyone “inhale” them. Both dishes appeal to everyone, fortunately.l, since they are extremely finicky eaters. For dessert, carrot cake or cinnamon buns are faves. Thank you for sharing your favorites, which motivated me to try those dishes I haven’t yet tried. Luis at ole dot travel
ReplyDeleteLuis, when you come, please bring some Chilean empanadas!
DeleteAll the photos made me hungry! I especially want to try the squash and pork stew. Thank you for sharing all the recipes.
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DeleteStir fry or curry dishes, the protein varies depending on family members. jtcgc at yahoo dot com
ReplyDeleteIsn't it lovely to have flexible dishes, Mary?
DeleteEverything mentioned sounds wonderful! We too have shrunk as a family. It's just my sister, bil and me around here these days. Often we make homemade pasta, sauce and salad with something yummy for dessert. My bil is lactose intolerant, so ice cream and cheesecake are out. Usually it's a cake or fruit pie, tart, crumble type dessert. makennedyinaz at hotmail dot com
ReplyDeleteHomemade pasta sounds delightful, Marcia.
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ReplyDeleteI like to make cookies! They are perfect for any visitor.
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Agree!
DeleteI love the flavors of New Orleans as well Spanish and Italian food. My misted requested meals are Chicken Creole, Deep dish enchiladas and Italian wedding soup. It’s usually just my husband and me so I’ll cut the recipe or freeze some of our meals. Love these suggestions 😊
ReplyDeleteI love Italian wedding soup.
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ReplyDeleteOh my! All that good is making me hungry! It depends on who is coming. Friday night it was spaghetti and meatballs, sometimes it is meatloaf, sometimes it’s boneless pork ribs. Sissie_sue@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteWe made spaghetti and meatballs last night!
DeleteThe recipes all look amazing and thank you for the chance at the giveaway. When we have family gatherings my job to make cranberry bread from scratch.
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DeleteMy job at family gatherings is I make the cranberry bread from scratch.
ReplyDeleteI think I’ve gained 20 pounds reading all these treats! My go to with family and friends ~ lots of quiches, tossed and pasta salads, cloverleaf rolls, and strawberry cheesecake! sharonrizzo@hotmail.com
ReplyDeleteI'll be right over for some of that cheesecake, Sharon.
DeleteSlippery Pot Pie. It's been a staple in my family for longer than I've been alive, LOL. No lie, I'm making it right now! The beef is cooking. sue.stoner72@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteYummy, Sue. What makes it slippery?
DeleteDepends on the occasion and the time of year. In the summer we will do hamburgers, hot dogs, potato salad. Fall and winter would be chili with all the fixings. cherierj(at)yahoo(dot)com
ReplyDeleteI still remember my mom's potato salad.
DeleteI dont get many human visitors here at my house in the woods, but when I visit my in law it's usually about 10 of us. And they are an italian family so we have something with sauce and lots of garlic usually. My brother in law has mastered grilled cheese and delicious juicy burgers, so that's often on the menu if we go the their house.
ReplyDeleteReading your family traditions was great, makes me miss my childhood, my parents, and the weekend trips to grandmas house and all the yummy food.
Thank you for your books! They truly do help me with tough times. Like now, mother's day is around the corner and it's such a painful day..anyway I'm off to finish Case of the Bleus...lol so fitting for how I'm feeling.
Have a great weekend and keep up the great work ladies!!
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DeleteMy grandchildren want my chili and I will make either Mexican Cheesecake (with cinnamon/sugar on the top crust!) or Lemon Icebox Pie from Whistlestop Cafe cookbook for dessert. Thank you for all the wonderful food ideas and the chance to win. madamhawk at gmail dot com
ReplyDeleteI'd love a piece of that cheesecake!
DeleteI like to make my six hour pork roast. It always turns out great and makes a good meal for a family dinner.
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DeleteWe usually get takeout to make it easier on the host family
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DeleteI make Lasagna for the big family get togethers. Thank you for the chance deborahortega229@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteI always make my hash brown casserole. It's cheesy goodness so we only have it on holidays because there are so many calories. When it's not a holiday we like to grill.
ReplyDeleteAt a cute little restaurant on Hawaii, they added pineapple tidbits to the buttermilk pancakes, (delicious!) and one of the toppings was a wonderful papaya puree. Awesome, wish I knew how they made it. Better than maple syrup, sorry Vermont!
ReplyDeleteThese posts are making me hungry! We have a few favorites we usually make when the kids come home to visit. The ones they request the most are Italian beef with homemade giardinierre, Cuban vaca frita (a delicious shredded beef dish), Middle Eastern food, or an all out Mexican fiesta. Life is short, these times together are a wonderful celebration of family and delicious food.
ReplyDeleteIt depends on who is visiting. My great nieces like chili. My brother and wife like chicken pot pie. Some like shepherds pie. suefoster109@gmail.com
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DeleteI depends on the time of year but it’s either ziti with meat sauce or London broil. sgiden at verizon(.)net
ReplyDeleteMy husband loves to make biscuits and gravy when family and friends come to visit. It is so delicious! I remember years ago when we were visiting my sister, her husband, and their 7 boys, my husband made this recipe and it was quite a hit! They still talk about!
ReplyDeleteI loved hearing about all of your special recipes! So interesting! Thank you for this opportunity,
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When my family gets together we usually eat Chicken Paprikas. Usually there are homemade pierogis in the freezer when are cooked and served for the family celebration. Bgracie@hotmail.com
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ReplyDeleteI usually just make the deviled eggs for the family gatherings.
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