Thursday, November 13, 2025

MOM'S POTATO SALAD #recipe @vmburns #Thanksgiving

 VMBURNS: My mom was a good cook, but she wasn't a good teacher. She never taught me to cook. She didn't measure anything. A typical conversation about cooking went something like this:

ME: "How much do I need?"

MOM: "Depends on how much you want to make?"

Me: "How long do I cook this?"

MOM: "Until it's done." 

ME: "How do I know when it's done?" 

Mom: "Taste it."

SIGH! I was content to show up for meals with my Tupperware containers for years (okay decades, but don't judge). My sister was more highly motivated than me. Big insider secret (she didn't like her mother in law's dressing). So, after she married, she started hosting their Thanksgiving. Which meant, my sister had to learn how to cook everything including dressing, for Thanksgiving dinner from my mom. I don't know how the early days went, but she and my mom got into a tradition where my sister would call my mom and they would cook together (virtually). My sister learned to master all of my mom's best meals. One of those was my mom's potato salad.

Potato salad is something that can be unique and varied. Just swing by your local deli. You will find German potato salad, Amish potato salad, etc. My mom's potato salad is more like Amish potato salad (minus the yellow color from mustard). It is creamy and somewhat sweet. In the pictures, you will notice that my portions don't match the ingredient list. I'm single, so I tried to reduce it. I still made too much. 




MY MOM'S POTATO SALAD



INGREDIENTS
    • 4 Russet Potatoes
    • 4 Eggs, boiled
    • 1/2 onion, finely chopped
    • 1/4 Cup Sweet Gherkins (chopped) or sweet relish
    • 1/4 Cup Mayo (I use Dukes)
    • 1/2 Tablespoon Salt (I use Lawry's)
    • 2 Tablespoons Sugar
    • 1/4 Teaspoon ground black pepper
    • 1 Teaspoon Smoked Paprika


    • INSTRUCTIONS
      1. Fill a pot with water and place potatoes and eggs in the pot. Cook on medium heat until potatoes are fork tender.
      2. Remove pot and drain. Replace with cold water and sit until potatoes and eggs are cool to touch.
      3. Finely chop onions and pickles and set aside.
      4. Remove potato skin (it should peel off easily), and cut potatoes into bite-sized cubes.
      5. Peel eggs and cut into cubes.
      6. Gently combine potatoes, eggs, onions, pickles, and mayo.
      7. Add salt and pepper. My mom always poured a bit of the juice from the pickle jar into the potato salad. It made the mixture creamy, but not soupy.
      8. Add one table spoon of sugar. Mix and taste. Is it too sweet? Not sweet enough? I need 2 tablespoons, but if you don't like sweet, then you can skip this step.
      9. Sprinkle paprika over the top and refrigerate.




      • READERS: Do you like potato salad? If so, what do you like in yours? Mustard? Olives?  Let me know in the comments below. 





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14 comments:

  1. Your salad is close to my mom's version of her mom's potato salad. We peel and chop our potatoes they are still and add a large spoon of apple cider vinegar, which would replace your pickle juice. We add a chopped stalk, or two, of celery. I mix the mayo and mustard in a separate bowl, add a smallish spoon of horsehead sauce for a little extra something. I pour the dressing over the salad ingredients and gently mix.

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  2. That looks so good, Valerie. I love the story about your mom’s “until it’s done” cooking style. It makes sense. Every stove’s a little different, so it’s hard to tell someone exactly how long to cook something. Your mom’s potato salad sounds delicious, especially with the sweet relish and a splash of pickle juice.

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    1. Thanks. It makes sense now, but when I was trying to learn, it was a pain. :-)

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  3. Thank you for your MOM'S POTATO SALAD recipe! I'm always trying new versions.
    My mom was like yours on how she cooked and her answers. I was way into adulthood and married before I started to learn from my mom. When I say learn, I mean I stood beside her and when she measured something in her hand, I would then measure it to write down. When I thought I had a recipe, I would make it and mom would tweek it saying add this or take out that. When I finally made it and got mom's signal of approval, it made it into my homemade cookbook of tried and true family recipes. I'm so glad it did what I did when I did before the ravages of Alzheimer settle in on mom years later. I now treasure my cookbook more than any published ones.
    My mom's potato recipe included a bit of mustard and a splash of white vinegar. Over the years, I found it easier to make a mixture of the mayo, mustard and vinegar add this or that to my taste to get a mixture that was almost too tart to the taste because it's tartness reduces when mixed with the other ingredients. Then I mix everything else (mom used olives, but I'm not a fan so I leave them out) and add the mixture to it to desired mix up. Then I taste it (sound like mom now) and add this or that if needed. I refrigerate any of the mayo mixture for later use. I like it with salmon or tuna for a salad mixture.
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    1. Kay, I followed the same method you did to learn how to make my mom's dressing. I sat and documented everything while my sister cooked. It took forever, but was worth it.

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  4. I haven't made potato salad in quite awhile, but tend to make it in a similar way. I always add some garlic to the water when I cook the potatoes and I do not peel them, just scrub them good. The skins add vitamins. I do use more pickle and a bit of dill pickle and celery as well. I also make my dressing separately and add a bit of horseradish to give it some punch. When it comes to things like this, I also cook like your mom. I can never tell someone how much of anything. I just add until it tastes right. Kay, I did something similar to learn how to make kolache from my aunt. Drove her nuts when I made her stop at every step so I could measure her handful or pinch! Fortunately, she had a great sense of humor and always teased me about it later.

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    1. Marcia, I also followed Kay's method to learn how to make my mom's dressing. I think I'll make it this year.

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  5. Ours includes a lot of eggs, because my grandparents had chickens and always had plenty. Grandma would also cut up a couple to make a flower shaped design on top, normal to us but my cousin's wife thought it was adorable when Mom showed her, as did the people at the potluck she brought it to. It's even led to a good natured argument between my sister and her husband over who ate more pieces of the top design when she makes it at home.

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    1. Alicia, the flower sounds cute. I like eggs, but my sister doesn't. So, it's a balance.

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  6. I love Lawry's seasoning salt! I use it a lot of stuff, I will try this recipe, thank you so much.

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    1. I use mustard in my potato salad,

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    2. Penney, I like Lawry's and mustard, but my mom never used mustard. It still tastes good.

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  7. I do like a good potato salad.
    One "trick" I use is to toss the still warm potatoes with some vinegar seasoning (or just the whole mayo mixture). It seems to flavor the potatoes better that way.

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