LESLIE BUDEWITZ: Friends, we are heartbroken to tell you of the passing of our dear friend, Sheila Connolly, on April 20, 2020, from cancer, in her beloved cottage in County Cork, Ireland. Whether you knew her from her books, her years of sharing stories and recipes here, her posts at Killer Characters, the Wicked Cozy Authors, and Poe’s Deadly Daughters, or in person as many of us did, you loved her. She was smart, and funny, and insatiably curious, and she told us the best stories.
Though I’d known her online for ages, through Sisters in Crime and the Guppies chapter, we first met in person at Bouchercon, the international mystery convention, in San Francisco in October of 2010. We walked down to the Ferry Terminal Market, where we ate, shopped, and chatted with the vendors. Naturally, she knew all about the apples.
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Daryl, Sheila, Roberta and Krista
and books, books, books! |
The next year, Bouchercon was held in St. Louis, and we shared a room in a historic hotel a few blocks from the convention center. We’d planned a day of sight-seeing, but it was pouring. We went anyway, laughing as we crammed into the tiny elevator for the ride up to the top of the Arch, following the trail of Lewis & Clark in the Interpretative Center, eating cro-nuts—they were new and weird and we had to try them. Blog readers well remember her delight at discovering new foods, especially in Irish shops and markets. No surprise that a lot of our memories of Sheila involve food!
Sheila had an amazing variety of careers over the years—it seemed like I heard about a different one every time I saw her—but clearly the one she loved best was “writer.” She’d always wanted to write, but when 9/11 happened, she decided to commit to writing seriously and to pursuing publication. And we are all so glad she did.
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Daryl, Sheila & Leslie in our pretty dresses
for the Agatha Awards banquet in 2017 |
Sheila joined Mystery Lovers’ Kitchen in 2010, posting every Friday through last June, when she began alternating with Vicki Delany, until early this year, when Edith Maxwell stepped in. She published more than forty books, in her Glassblowing, Museum, Orchard, paranormal, and Victorian village mysteries, and perhaps her most popular, the County Cork Mysteries. Her blog posts about traveling in Ireland, buying her cottage, and exploring nearby villages were treats for us all. She even let blog readers weigh in on what color to paint the front door of her cottage!
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Janet Bolin, Linda Wiken, Vicki Delany, Kaye Geroge,
Daryl Wood Gerber, and Sheila Connolly
Malice 2019 |
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| Our dear friend, enjoying life |
Sheila regularly attended Malice Domestic, and we have fond memories of sorting our group recipe cards while drinking wine, sharing a table at the banquet, and cheering for our friends who were nominated for Agatha Awards. Sheila's first novel,
Through a Glass, Deadly, written as Sarah Atwell, was nominated for the 2008 Agatha Award for Best First Novel. She served as president of the Sisters in Crime New England chapter, and was active in Mystery Writers of America and other writers’ organizations.
She is survived by her husband, daughter, and sister, and a brand-new grandchild. And thousands of readers, including all of us, who miss her already.
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LUCY BURDETTE: Leslie has already told you a lot about Sheila, so I will be brief. I met her in 2005 or so through Sisters in Crime New England not long after I was published, and before she landed a contract. You might underestimate Sheila because she could come across as cheerfully befuddled from time to time. But underneath that, she was a whirling dervish. In the time one of us could figure out the plot for one mystery, she would have written three. And she was fearless in the kitchen--she'd try cooking anything, the odder the better. (Peruse all her recipes on this blog to see what I mean.) I so admired her drive--she wanted to be in Ireland and she made that happen. She wanted to live her last days in her beloved cottage, and she made that happen too. Sheila, we loved and admired you--rest in peace, our dear friend.
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MADDIE DAY/EDITH MAXWELL: I met Sheila at my first Sisters in Crime New England chapter meeting in 2006, and she announced she had just signed her first two cozy contracts. She blurbed my first book. She preceded me as SINC-NE president. She showed me it was possible to write two, three, even four books a year, and I tried to channel her energy (I still do). She never lacked in good cheer or for ideas. I always loved her Friday recipe posts on this blog. Most important, she persisted writing stories readers wanted to read - and had fun while doing it.
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| Four SINC-NE presidents: Sheila, Barb Ross, Edith/Maddie, and Connie Hambley |
Sheila, my dear friend, I will miss you for a very long time.
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CLEO COYLE: It is almost beyond comprehension that we would
lose her so soon. Because Sheila was always so full of life and always excited to
share her love of Ireland, I'll just add two links for her many fans and friends to enjoy, once again, her own wonderful words, beautiful photos, and inspiring enthusiasm. Sheila’s last post for Mystery
Lovers’ Kitchen was on November 8, 2019.
Here
is a link to her celebration of favorite Irish foods. She called
the post “Irish Food Reprise,” and she started with a photo of that
famous “full Irish” breakfast. And
here
is a link from her post in early October, when she first arrived in Ireland. She
titled this gorgeous photo
View from my front window...
Rest in heaven,
Sheila, may God’s sun shine warm upon your face,
and his rains fall soft upon your fields.
ESSIE LANG: One of my favorite memories of the very memorable Sheila was at Malice Domestic a couple of years ago. Sheila, Mary Jane Maffini and I were making our way back to the hotel after an enjoyable afternoon event put on by our agents at BookEnds Literary Agency when we all heard the call of the olive oil siren. So, of course, we had to go into this delightful specialty olive shop and sample, and compare with each other, and buy a variety of olive oils. Shopping is fun but especially so when it's related to food and cooking, and in such great company. I will miss seeing Sheila at future conferences and catching up. Godspeed my friend.
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MAYA CORRIGAN: I didn't know Sheila as well or as long as the rest of you did, but every time I saw her at mystery conventions she was friendly, funny, and full of sage advice for a less experienced writer. I'll miss her posts about Ireland and her recipes. And I'll miss seeing her smiling and enjoying the company of mystery writers and fans.
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KRISTA DAVIS: Sheila and I go way back to our days as unpublished Guppies in Sisters In Crime. We were both nominated for an Agatha award for Best First Mystery the same year. Nevertheless, when the winner of our category was being announced, Sheila sat next to me and we held hands. Alas, neither of us won, but we went off and enjoyed champagne together anyway. I will miss her terribly. Sheila once posted a photograph of herself sitting on the steps of a building. I think it may have been a European cathedral. I loved that photo of the young Sheila. I looked through her blogs, trying to find it. But I found something else instead. Sheila wrote a blog that was never posted. It was her last one and we didn't realize it was there. She left us, her fellow Mystery Lovers' Kitchen bloggers, a goodbye in the first sentence. The blog is classic Sheila. She's exuberant about the things she loved. We'll be posting it here at Mystery Lovers' Kitchen on Thursday. Please join us. It will be posted exactly as we found it.
Daryl: Sheila, I will remember fondly our many chats at the conferences, Malice Domestic, Bouchercon, and more. Most often with a glass of wine in our hands. You told such delicious stories. Your wit and, yes, your snark, will be missed. "Death leaves a heartache no one can heal; Love leaves a memory no one can steal." Rest in peace.
We have the books, the recipes, the memories. Thank you, dear friend, for sharing your extraordinary life and spirit with us.


Readers, we invite you to share your memories of Sheila and her books in the comments.